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My spouse needs more care than I can give

Options that keep a couple together, and the spousal protections Texas Medicaid provides.

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Options that keep a couple together, and the spousal protections Texas Medicaid provides.

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Caring for a spouse is different from caring for a parent, financially and otherwise. Texas Medicaid has specific protections for the spouse who stays at home.

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Options that keep a couple together, and the spousal protections Texas Medicaid provides.

What to do, in order

  1. Understand the spousal protections. Texas Medicaid has a Community Spouse Resource Allowance so the spouse at home is not impoverished, reported at $162,660 for 2026, plus a separate monthly income allowance. Confirm current figures with HHSC or an elder law attorney.
  2. Look at communities that keep couples together. Several Austin-area campuses offer different care levels on one site, so a couple can remain close even when needs diverge. Ask specifically how couples are handled and what a second-person fee covers.
  3. Be honest about your own health. Spousal caregivers routinely under-report their own decline. The plan needs to survive you being unwell for a fortnight.
  4. Get an objective assessment. The Capital Area ADRC at 855-937-2372 can assess both of you at no cost, which is more useful than either of you assessing the other.

Questions Austin families ask

Who do I call to report a problem at an Austin nursing home?

Call Texas HHSC Complaint and Incident Intake at 1-800-458-9858, weekdays 7 a.m. to 7 p.m. That line covers nursing homes, assisted living, home health, and hospice. You can also contact the Capital Area ombudsman at 512-916-6054 for free, confidential advocacy.

How do I report suspected elder abuse in Texas?

Call the Texas Abuse Hotline at 1-800-252-5400, available 24 hours a day, if action is needed within 24 hours. Non-urgent reports can be filed at txabusehotline.org. If someone faces immediate risk of death or serious harm, call 911. Reports are confidential and may be anonymous.

Should I call APS or HHSC about a problem at my mom's facility?

It depends where it happened. Adult Protective Services, 1-800-252-5400, handles abuse or neglect of adults living in the community. Abuse or neglect inside a licensed facility goes to HHSC Complaint and Incident Intake at 1-800-458-9858. Families frequently call the wrong number and lose time.

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